This year, let's choose to be kind and gentle to each other - but especially to ourselves. How do you do that when the inner war never ceases?
With all the busyness, hustle and bustle around the Christmas season, my gift to you is a moment to relax and smile with a sweet poem.
I think my head is going to explode. I went to a friend’s house to help out last week and there was clutter, clutter everywhere and no place to put it!
It’s the Christmas season and we’re all shopping like crazy to get the perfect gift on everyone’s list. So, where do you put all the new stuff when your closets are already overflowing?
Why Am I Writing About Clutter?
Yes, I know I’m a certified aromatherapist and what does clutter have to do with aromatherapy? Well, I’m also a holistic life coach and that means I’ve been trained to ask questions and look at situations with fresh eyes. And that’s important information for you to have when reading this post – and thank you for reading!
I visited my friend to help her move “stuff” (read that to mean clutter) around to make room for her Christmas tree. Sheesh!
Listen – how you live is none of my business – ever. But when you stand there and complain that you’re overwhelmed, depressed, frustrated and mad as hell while we’re rearranging a shittonne of junk, then don’t expect me to keep my mouth shut.
To make room for the tree, we had to move some of the clutter into her bedroom which already looked like a warehouse. Bedrooms are for sleeping and sex – NOT for TV watching, eating or as storage units! Period!
I’ve been in minor minimalist mode for the last few years. I say minor because I have no intention of getting rid of everything I own.
But here’s what’s been on my mind lately: What happens if I get run over by a truck today? Then what? Who’s going to take care of all the stuff and clutter that I have everywhere? Just how much stuff sitting around collecting dust do I really need?
The bigger and better question is this: WHY are you hanging on to all this stuff – clutter? What does it represent to you? How does it make you feel to hang onto all this stuff? Better yet, how does it make you feel when you get rid of all that stuff?
I told you that the life coach thing would be important to this blog post. :0)
My Minimalist Approach
Here’s my idea of minimalism:
- Have just what I need – maybe a bit more
- If I haven’t touched it in 2 years, it’s time to get rid of it
- If I haven’t worn it in 2 years, let it go
- How much dusting do I really want to do (I hate dusting)
- Analyzing why I need more stuff
Physical clutter equates to mental clutter pure and simple. Yet all the commercials we watch brainwash us into thinking we NEED more stuff! Have you noticed how many storage companies there are around your town? Why do think that is?
Listen, I love pretty things and lots of clothes as much as the next guy. I do. BUT – what am I going to do with all this stuff when I get old? All that money spent on needless stuff could have helped my retirement account get a little bigger and make me feel more secure.
Not to mention that we get busy busy busy and don’t take the time to put things away if there’s any room left!
The First Step in De-Cluttering
STOP. JUST STOP. Stop buying stuff you don’t absolutely need for your survival!
At this time of the year, it’s imperative to think outside of the Christmas box. Instead of buying more needless stuff for someone, why not have dinner together? Why not get you and your sister/friend/mom a mani/pedi and spend time together? Or get a series of yoga classes to take together?
How many more toys do your kids and grandkids really need? If they’re into soccer, why not get them a soccer lesson? Or tickets to a big league soccer game and go with them? It’s not things that make memories, it’s people we’ve spent time with.
And in all of this, you’re shopping local at small independent businesses where your dollars make a difference!
My second step was to clean out the junk drawer in my kitchen. Then it was a stack of boxes with stuff I hadn’t touched in five years – five years! If you haven’t touched it in that length of time, why do you need to keep it?
What’s your first step toward de-cluttering?
Where To Take Your Clutter
There’s a number of excellent places to donate your items, but one in particular touched my heart. Annie’s Hope Center For Growing And Healing. Annie’s Hope is a certified 501(c)3 non-profit and the Reverend Abby Catoe is the force behind it. Helping women who have endured domestic violence, this labor of love helps them heal and get back on their feet.
Please think about de-cluttering this year when you do your Christmas shopping. Seriously give some thought to spending time with those who matter to you instead of buying stuff! Besides – I have some awesome products for you to give the gift of health this year for Christmas – let’s talk today!
Ah yes, tis the season. According to all the songs on the radio, this is the most wonderful time of the year. So-o-o-o, if it's the most wonderful time of the year, why do I feel stressed out, tired and crabby? Raise your hand if you feel overwhelmed, tired and cranky at Christmas!
Vaginal dryness is no laughing matter. Usually associated with post-menopausal women, vaginal dryness can cause everything from mild discomfort to painful urination. VagiMagic Intimate Dryness Moisturizer is a plant-based balm to soothe and nourish.